Stop Worrying Now!

Hello once again!

What you think you become, is what you will become. There are many quotes and sayings that goes along that line, but few understands its implications. Our mind is like an armoury that forges the weapons that we use to destroy ourselves. It is thus imperative that we change that armoury to one that creates something of better value to our lives. And with so doing, change our character to better suit a life which we wish we want:

The successful, happy life.

“Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the
weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools with
which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and
peace. By the right choice and true application of thought, man ascends to
the Divine Perfection; by the abuse and wrong application of thought, he
descends below the level of the beast. Between these two extremes are all
the grades of character, and man is their maker and master.”

- James Allen

Smile!
Jeff

Obtained from ‘As a Man Thinketh’ by James Allen:

Man is buffeted by circumstances so long as he believes himself to be the
creature of outside conditions. But when he realizes that he may command
the hidden soil and seeds of his being out of which circumstances grow, he
then becomes the rightful master of himself.

How true it is, that we are our own garderner of our garden. For as huge the world outside may seem, the power to perceive it lies within our own minds.

Remember: The mastery of our minds will be the most liberating manner to eliminate worries forever!

Smile!
Jeff

Hello,

It is a good habit for all of us to cultivate the habit of ‘profitting from our losses’. It is by this method in which we can live our lives as constant winners, for we never ever ‘lose’ per-say, whatever situation happens.

By taking only the profits, you always win. And to do so, you need to learn the powerful method of finding a ‘learning’ point in every step of your life. What is the lesson this situation is teaching you? Definately there is something to learn. Even if you lose very embarassly, what is the taking point out of it? Perhaps it might be teaching you to be more prepared next time? Perhaps it might be not to think too highly of yourselves and look down too lightly on others?

The possibilities are endless to which we can win, if we know how to think positive, and profit from our losses.

Smile!
Jeff

Hi there once again!

Don’t you absolutely hate criticism?

It makes you feel lousy, useless, worthless.
It reveals your true weaknesses to the world.
Your bad traits that you were trying to hide from others, all exhibited and made public.

Your blood boils. Your head spins. Your breathing deep. You are in fight or flight mode.

What does the criticiser have that is better than you, anyways?

It’s not nice to be criticised indeed. But here is a way to help you get over that.

Taken from Dale Carnegie, one of the best self-improvement coaches in his time..

The idea that ‘no one ever kicks a dead dog”.

The fact that people are criticising you can only mean one thing: you took notice of you. Of what benefits does the criticiser have for releasing that nasty comment on you? Definately there must be some sort of benefit to him/her..we all do things for our own profit.

The answer? He is probably envious of you.

S/he criticised you because he gets satisfaction out of doing it. And remember, the more important or powerful you are, the more satisfaction s/he gains from doing so.

No one ever ‘kicks a dead dog’, the father of Robert Hutchins said when his son was inaugurated as 4th President of the University of Chicago at the age of 30.

How true it is. Think about it. If you were just a normal, ‘in-the-crowd’ and by-the-street passerby, would s/he criticise you? Would she even bother spending her time thinking about you? If s/he did criticise you, will s/he gain anything?

My answer is No, s/he wouldn’t. Unless you were of someone important, then the satisfaction is returned in the form of a cheap gleeful strike at you. The fact that s/he has the ability to make that comment, will make him or her feel pleasure doing so.

So always remember, ‘No one ever kicks a dead dog’, and you can guarantee criticism towards you will always sound like secret hidden praises!

Smile!
Jeff

Hello once again!

I would like to point you to the release of the new ebook, ‘Stop Worrying Now!’. This ebook contains quick information and tips that is practical and can be used by you to stop you worrying.

Click on the above link titled “Stop Worrying Now Ebook” for more information!

The choice to stop worrying now is decided by no one else but you.

If you always wanted a little boost and guidance to help you get your life straighten up, I highly suggest you give it a read.

If you apply the tips to your life and it does not work, I guarantee your money back.

What is there to lose?

Smile always,
Jeff